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Taking pride in doing something well is a function of how someone
feels about themselves. This "pride" thing starts very early in life,
however as we begin to develop, we get bombarded by the negative world
we live in. An example is when we are beginning to learn to walk as
a child. Everyone around us is acting like a child by clapping for
us and walking behind us encouraging us to take the next step. However,
as we begin to get into things, as well as learn to talk, we are told
by adults to, "sit down and shut up." This gets very confusing to
us as we are developing in life, and we begin at an early age to focus
on our failures instead our our successes. When we are focused on
our failures, we usually don't take very much pride in what we do.
However, if we encourage ourselves and listen to how others encourage
us, we will automatically take more pride in what we do. Most people
have a list of failures a mile long embedded in their mind that get
triggered whenever they make a mistake. If that is true for you I
want to encourage you to get rid of those failure thoughts and exchange
them for successful thoughts. Successful thinking doesn't just happen,
you have to make it happen. And the best way to
start the process is to make a list of your successes that you value.
Concentrating on your successes will allow you to take a lot more
pride in what you do everyday. Tell yourself everyday that you are
a successful person!
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